I am sure you have heard the saying: Comparison is the thief of joy.
During the Christmas Season, it is easy to slip into the mode of comparison.
For each person, this comparison can come in different ways.
Maybe it is comparing our decorations to those of our neighbors, our Instagram friends, or even those we see on Pinterest.
Maybe it’s comparing the way our kids performed in the Christmas production, who wore the best outfit to the party, or who made the best tasting dish.
Comparison can quickly lead to jealousy, envy, and even pride. It is not just a ‘women issue”. It is an “everyone issue.”
Maybe you don’t think you are comparing, but having you ever found yourself trying to “Keep up with the Jones?”
It’s not just at Christmas time that the “comparison” bug can get us, but at Christmas, it seems to sneak out of nowhere and bite us without being noticed or addressed. I feel as if there is a perfect example in the Christmas Story, of how to deal with this comparisons issue.
As we read the Christmas Story, there are details about Mary, Joseph, and Zechariah’s encounters with an angel, but not a lot is mentioned about Elizabeth. In fact, the Scriptures record very little about Elizabeth, but she was a remarkable woman. She believed Gabriel when her husband did not. Because there are only a few verses that relate specifically to her, so much of what we think of Elizabeth is speculative.
I think it is safe to say that Elizabeth had some unmet expectations and disappointments in her life, but Scripture shows us that she never gave up faithfully serving God (Luke 1:5-7), or believing (Luke 1:24), and praying for a miracle (Luke 1:13 ).
There is a lot we can learn from Elizabeth about being faithful, persistent in our prayers, and also in continuing to believe God for miracles. However, I feel like there is another powerful lesson to be learned from Elizabeth that many overlook. It is the way she handled herself in the midst of the most amazing and miraculous time in her life.
Mary Visits Elizabeth
At that time Mary got ready and hurried to a town in the hill country of Judea, where she entered Zechariah’s home and greeted Elizabeth. When Elizabeth heard Mary’s greeting, the baby leaped in her womb, and Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit. In a loud voice she exclaimed: “Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the child you will bear! But why am I so favored, that the mother of my Lord should come to me? As soon as the sound of your greeting reached my ears, the baby in my womb leaped for joy. Blessed is she who has believed that the Lord would fulfill his promises to her!”
Elizabeth was at a time in her life, when she could have wanted all the attention, all the limelight, all the focus to be on her. She could have even demanded that it was her turn. Her turn to receive a very important assignment and receive an amazing gift from God; a son, who God had already proclaimed would be special. She could have pointed fingers at those who had scorned her for being barren and said, “In your face!” “See, what’s happening to me now! I’ve been selected, I am special, I’m important.” She could have let pride and comparison come and rob her of the joy God had promised in this season (Luke 1:4).
Yet, Elizabeth did none of those things. Instead, she withdrew for 5 months. I believe to nurture the miracle that was growing inside her. I believe she spent time praising and thanking God for His faithfulness. She kept her heart turned toward God and this helped her to operate in grace and humility.
We see this play out, when Mary, her young unmarried cousin came to visit. As we read Scripture, it tells us that the minute Mary greeted her:
When Elizabeth heard Mary’s greeting, the baby leaped in her womb, and Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit. In a loud voice she exclaimed: “Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the child you will bear! (Luke 1:41-42)
Here is where Elizabeth could have begun the comparison and competition game, and gotten upset by the circumstances. After all, in today speak, we would say, Mary totally showed Elizabeth up. This was Elizabeth’s time to have the limelight; getting all the attention and focus, baby showers and celebrations. Yet, here was Mary, she was going to have a baby too, yet she wasn’t married, she hadn’t struggled for years wanting something so bad and not getting it. She hadn’t lived in shame, scorn, and ridicule like Elizabeth.
Instead, Elizabeth had knowledge that others did not. Luke 1:43 says:
“But why am I so favored, that the mother of my Lord should come to me”
Elizabeth chose to focus on her assignment from God and bless Mary in hers at the same time. Mary was a young woman and Elizabeth was an old woman, but Mary needed the encouragement that Elizabeth gave her. Elizabeth assured Mary that that all the things that had been told to her, by the angel, would happen. Mary need a safe place to nurture and cultivate the miracle that was happening within her too. They needed the love and support of one another at one of the most profound and hard times in their lives. They needed to champion each other and stick together. They did not need petty jealousy, competition, or comparison going on.
Both of these women had a role to play and a powerful God given plan and purpose on their life, and so do we!
They needed to stay focused on their own assignment, and stay in their own life lane, and so do we.
Each woman had their own set of problems and blessings from the miracles they were to be a part of, and so do we.
In order to fulfill what they were called to do, they couldn’t compare, be in competition, or be jealous of each other, and neither can we.
Don’t get distracted looking over the fence and assuming the other side is better. Remember, the grass is NOT greener on the other side of the fence.
Instead, they needed to encourage and bless one another, and so do we.
Instead, they needed to care for each other and so do we.
Instead, they needed to focus on what was right in front of them to do, and so do we.
Instead, we need to champion one another, support one another, and be advocates for each other, just like Elizabeth and Mary were.
 The Angel tells Zechariah his prayers have been answered, but I believe it was also Elizabeth who was praying this prayer for a child too.
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