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Today I am guest posting over at Lyli Dunbar’s Faith on Fire Linkup.  Lyli is doing a new series entitled “Refined” and I have the honor of kicking off the series.  You can start reading the post below, but then hop on over to Lyli’s place and leave me a comment there plus if you could leave a comment here letting me know you stopped by it would be awesome too!



Tears began to form as I hung up the phone.  My husband had called to let me know he would be working late again.  I love my children, but I needed a break, they needed their dad and I desperately needed him home.  I was 25 when I began praying a seemingly innocent prayer earnestly seeking God with a few simple requests: a new church, a new house and a new job for my husband. Even as I prayed, I was creating my own plan of how it should look. This prayer forever changed the trajectory of my life.


Have you ever prayed a prayer that brought significant change to your life?



Before we go any further I have a confession:  I hate change!  It’s a nasty five letter word that I dislike, or at least I used to.  You see, I used to be a control freak.  I was the type of person who had plans for the backup plans. If something was going to happen or go wrong with the original plan, I had another plan. I needed to be able to control the situation and change just didn’t fit in my vocabulary and if it did, it was never in a good way.



I’ve heard it said that frustration is a catalyst for change and I’ve learned it’s true.  Frustration was the driving force behind my prayers back then. I wanted change, truly I did, but I wanted it my way, in my time and fitting into my plan. That is until God in His sovereignty decided it was time I needed refining and change was the vehicle He was going to use to bring it about.


Have you ever wanted something to change in your life, but then when it did, it wasn’t at all how you had pictured it?


Yes, God answered all three of my prayers at once, however, it wasn’t exactly in the way I had planned. His plan involved change in every area of my life.  His plan involved …

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Debbie Kitterman is a natural born encourager who is on fire for God. She is passionate about equipping individuals, so they can go deeper in the relationship with God, reach their God-potential and claim their Kingdom inheritance. Debbie is a wife, mother, author, pastor, speaker and the founder of “Dare 2 Hear,” a ministry that trains individuals to hear the voice of God. She travels to churches internationally and is the founder and teacher of d2htraining.com, an online course designed to equip the believer in releasing God’s heart. Her writing and teachings inspire faith and build bridges for people to believe and expect the impossible. She is also an ordained Foursquare pastor, currently serving with her husband, John, as senior pastor of Restoration Church in Lacey, Washington. Learn more at: www.debbiekitterman.com


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